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September 8, 2022

How to Audit Your Time and Stop Wasting Your Day

Most people know where their money goes. Far fewer know where their time goes. We finish a week wondering why we didn't exercise, spend more time with family, make progress on important goals, or accomplish what we intended. Yet when we look back, it's often difficult to explain exactly where the hours disappeared. The problem isn't always a lack of time. More often, it's a lack of awareness. One of the most effective ways to improve productivity, reduce distractions, and align your schedule with your priorities is surprisingly simple: conduct a time audit. For one week, track how you spend your time and compare your actions to what you say matters most. The results can be eye-opening.

September 3, 2022

Most People Don’t Think About Their Legacy Until It’s Too Late

Most people think about legacy near the end of life. I think that's a mistake. Legacy isn't something created during our final years. It's being built every day through our actions, relationships, habits, and decisions. Long before people remember us after we're gone, they experience the impact we're having while we're still here. The way we treat our spouse. The way we raise our children. The way we encourage friends. The way we show up at work. The way we respond when life becomes difficult. Whether we realize it or not, we're all building a legacy. The real question is whether we're building one intentionally.

September 2, 2022

The Real Benefits of Waking Up Early (And Why Most People Miss the Point)

Most people think the benefit of waking up early is productivity. I don't think that's true. The real benefit of waking up early is that it creates uninterrupted time for the things that matter most. Before emails arrive. Before meetings begin. Before children wake up. Before the demands of the day start competing for your attention. For years I've used early mornings to read, pray, exercise, think, and prepare for the day ahead. Those habits have had a far greater impact on my life than the specific time shown on the clock. Waking up early isn't a magic formula for success, and it certainly isn't worth sacrificing sleep. But when paired with healthy sleep habits, those quiet morning hours can become one of the most valuable parts of the day.

December 1, 2020

How to Save and Earn More Money by Asking for It

Did you know a single question can save you hundreds—or even thousands—of dollars? Over the years, I've negotiated lower prices, higher salaries, refunded fees, insurance settlements, and even major home improvement projects. None of these wins came from special negotiation tactics. They came from one simple habit: asking. Most people accept the first price, the first offer, or the first answer they receive. But the reality is that many prices, salaries, fees, and opportunities are far more flexible than they appear. In this article, I'll show you how a simple willingness to ask has saved my family money, increased my income, and opened doors that would have remained closed otherwise.

September 18, 2018

What We Can and Cannot Leave Our Children

Most people think inheritance is primarily about money. Scripture presents a more nuanced picture. Proverbs 19:14 tells us that houses and wealth may be passed from one generation to the next, but some of life's most valuable gifts come from God alone. Understanding the difference can reshape how we think about success, stewardship, parenting, and legacy.

January 4, 2018

Why Positivity Is a Skill You Can Train (Not Just a Personality Trait)

Some people seem naturally optimistic while others struggle with negative thoughts, frustration, or discouragement. It's easy to assume positivity is simply part of someone's personality. I don't believe that's true. While our personalities influence how we see the world, our daily thoughts and reactions are habits we can strengthen over time. Just as we develop discipline, patience, or confidence through repeated choices, we can also train ourselves to respond to life's frustrations with greater perspective and self-control. That doesn't mean pretending problems don't exist or forcing fake happiness. It means learning to respond intentionally instead of reacting automatically. Positivity isn't about denying reality. It's about choosing the most helpful response to reality.

December 31, 2017

Why “New Year, New You” Fails (And What Actually Works Instead)

Every January millions of people decide this will finally be the year everything changes. They buy gym memberships. Start diets. Purchase planners. Create ambitious goals. And within weeks, many are right back where they started. The problem isn't a lack of desire. It's believing lasting change comes from one big decision instead of hundreds of small ones. Becoming a better version of yourself doesn't happen because the calendar changes. It happens because your daily habits do.

December 29, 2017

Why Endings Are Often New Beginnings

The end of a year always catches me by surprise. No matter how much we anticipate it, time seems to move faster than we expect. One moment we're making plans for January and the next we're looking back wondering where the last twelve months went. As I've gotten older, and especially after becoming a husband and father, I've become increasingly aware that life moves in seasons. Years end. Jobs change. Children grow. Goals evolve. But I've also learned something encouraging. Most endings are not really endings at all. They're beginnings in disguise.