Have you ever been asked what you’re writing only to be looked down upon for your cute little hobby? Has anyone ever suggested you should just self-publish as if getting a traditional deal is beyond your reach? Has someone given you their “next big idea” for a book that you should write? There are some things only writers understand. Here are 10 of them.

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1. Writing is ridiculously hard work.

From managing the muse to fixing what the muse led you to believe was incredible, writing doesn’t magically become easy.

Writers especially expect themselves to get better, and rightfully so, which means the work only gets harder and harder to do more, dig deeper, and be more real and raw than ever before.

2. You are trying to finish writing your book.

You’re not just wondering about it.

You’re not just dreaming someone else will finish it for you.

You want it to be done.

You’re constantly on the hunt for pieces of time that you can devote to your writing.

It’s not a joke and it’s not just a cute little hobby.

Writing is life.

Finishing your work is life.

It’s important and you don’t need someone else to tell you what you already know.

What you need, is encouragement and support that what you are working on is valuable and will be valuable to other people.

3. If you want advice, tips, criticism, help, ideas, or a brainstorming session, you are more than capable of asking for it.

You don’t need unsolicited input from someone who isn’t even your target audience.

You aren’t looking for criticism that, if given enough time and energy, could perhaps be transformed into constructive criticism.

What you want is a friend.

A friend that will ask you how your writing is coming along.

A friend that lets you know they are there for you and respect what you’re trying to accomplish.

A friend that is eager to buy your book when it’s available.

A friend that’s willing to tell other people about your book, or your website, or your project, or that blog post you just finished.

4. Writers are not in competition with each other and have no interest in copying each other.

Writers know with experience, if not intuitively, that their thoughts and ideas are unique.

They have never been shared before quite the same way or with the same words.

Writers do not want to do what that other super successful author did.

Writers want to make their own way and pave their own path.

Writers want to be known for their work, not that they used a formula to “flip this book” like it’s a home remodeling business.

5. Writers, though appreciative of time by themselves, are hungry to make a connection with a single person.

To know one person was impacted by their book, article, or blog post is a rush.

It is the reason so many writers write.

The purpose always comes down to impacting someone because writers know deep down that someone out there needs to read what they wrote.

It will be life-giving to them.

6. Writers know that writing and making a book, business, or website are very different things.

Many writers just want to write.

They just want to share their thoughts and if someone comes across it, wonderful.

Other writers want to make their writing more of a business and are striving for the financial reward of a life that serves up value to hundreds, thousands, or perhaps millions of people.

Each writer is different and so each writer respects the goals of the writer.

7. Writers know connecting with readers comes through authenticity.

That authenticity can be by opening up their lives on the page or by being so committed to the story that the passion and hard work bleeds onto the page.

In the quest for authenticity, writers don’t need someone to tell them to dumb down their work, blur their craft, or massage their meaning.

The writer needs to be bold.

They need to express the creative idea burning within them.

To tame the purpose of the writer is to keep the cheetah on a leash.

8. Writers know that anyone and everyone is a writer.

At the same time, writers feel no fear at this understanding.

Instead, they feel community.

Writers are stronger together, never weaker.

Writers are more bold when spurred on by another.

Writers want to talk about writing.

Writers want to hear about writing.

Writers have an undeniable urge to connect with other writers because, again, anyone and everyone is a writer.

The act of writing is exploring.

Writers explore ideas to see what’s around the bend.

To see if what they discover is worth sharing.

With anyone and everyone being a writer, writers know everyone can bring value to the table.

9. Writing is an art.

Writing can create a connection with another person that no other medium can.

Writers know this isn’t an insult to the modern understanding of artist.

We aren’t talking about painting, drawing, or making sculptures of any kind.

We are talking about impact.

We are talking about reaching into someone’s heart or mind and grabbing them, shaking them, forever changing them, because of what they read.

Painting, drawing, and making sculptures can also have this impact.

It is all, art, in the most powerful sense of the word.

Writing has the ability to alter the course of humanity.

It’s not cookie cutter and it never should be.

10. Writers understand the loneliness of being a writer.

More times than not, writers feel an obligation to finish their work.

Writers sense a purpose behind their writing that is bigger than they are.

Writers know someone somewhere will be impacted in some way and to not write, to not finish the book, is depriving that person of what they need.

And so, slim waking moments are spent writing. Lunch breaks are spent writing.

Time at home when one can relax is instead spend writing.

Writers get this.

Writers understand that, although there is very little to show for the effort, tremendous work and sacrifice has gone into writing.

Writers know other writers need their patience.

Their grace.

Their understanding.

Their support and, always most importantly, their friendship.

Writers know they are human after all and the most basic things still apply.

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