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September 8, 2022

How to Audit Your Time and Stop Wasting Your Day

Most people know where their money goes. Far fewer know where their time goes. We finish a week wondering why we didn't exercise, spend more time with family, make progress on important goals, or accomplish what we intended. Yet when we look back, it's often difficult to explain exactly where the hours disappeared. The problem isn't always a lack of time. More often, it's a lack of awareness. One of the most effective ways to improve productivity, reduce distractions, and align your schedule with your priorities is surprisingly simple: conduct a time audit. For one week, track how you spend your time and compare your actions to what you say matters most. The results can be eye-opening.

September 3, 2022

Most People Don’t Think About Their Legacy Until It’s Too Late

Most people think about legacy near the end of life. I think that's a mistake. Legacy isn't something created during our final years. It's being built every day through our actions, relationships, habits, and decisions. Long before people remember us after we're gone, they experience the impact we're having while we're still here. The way we treat our spouse. The way we raise our children. The way we encourage friends. The way we show up at work. The way we respond when life becomes difficult. Whether we realize it or not, we're all building a legacy. The real question is whether we're building one intentionally.

September 2, 2022

The Real Benefits of Waking Up Early (And Why Most People Miss the Point)

Most people think the benefit of waking up early is productivity. I don't think that's true. The real benefit of waking up early is that it creates uninterrupted time for the things that matter most. Before emails arrive. Before meetings begin. Before children wake up. Before the demands of the day start competing for your attention. For years I've used early mornings to read, pray, exercise, think, and prepare for the day ahead. Those habits have had a far greater impact on my life than the specific time shown on the clock. Waking up early isn't a magic formula for success, and it certainly isn't worth sacrificing sleep. But when paired with healthy sleep habits, those quiet morning hours can become one of the most valuable parts of the day.

August 31, 2022

Why We Reject Ourselves Before Anyone Else Does

Many opportunities disappear long before someone tells us "no." We assume the answer will be no. We assume people won't help. We assume exceptions won't be made. We assume asking would be awkward, selfish, or uncomfortable. As a result, we quietly reject ourselves before anyone else gets the chance. One conversation during a trip to Catalina Island reminded me how often we lose opportunities not because we asked and failed, but because we never asked at all.

May 6, 2022

3 Mindset Shifts That Made Me More Successful Over Time

Success is often portrayed as a dramatic breakthrough: a big promotion, a successful business launch, a published book, or a major financial milestone. In reality, most success is much quieter. It is built through small decisions repeated consistently over time. The willingness to keep going when progress feels slow. The ability to tolerate discomfort. The readiness to act when opportunities appear. Over the years, I've noticed three mindset shifts that repeatedly helped me make progress in my career, finances, personal goals, and creative pursuits. None of them are complicated, but each has proven surprisingly effective.

May 4, 2021

How Grief Shapes Growth, Grace, and Emotional Resilience

Grief is one of the most universal human experiences, yet many people feel completely unprepared when loss arrives. In this interview, grief counselor, author, and podcast host Mandy Capehart shares practical insights on emotional resilience, healthy grieving, communication, personal growth, and creating space for healing. Whether you're navigating loss yourself or supporting someone through a difficult season, these lessons offer a thoughtful framework for approaching grief with greater grace and understanding.

October 3, 2020

How to Stand Out by Becoming a Highlighter Person

Most people spend their lives trying to stand out by talking louder, promoting themselves more aggressively, or drawing attention to their own accomplishments. Yet the people who make the biggest impact are often doing the opposite. They listen before speaking. They elevate other people. They amplify good ideas. They create clarity in noisy environments. Years ago, my wife shared a simple phrase that completely changed how I think about influence: "Be a highlighter in a room full of crayons." The idea is simple but powerful. While crayons constantly draw attention to themselves, highlighters draw attention to what matters. This article explores why highlighter people are so rare, why they stand out, and how becoming one can transform your relationships, leadership, and influence.

July 11, 2020

Why Comparing Yourself to Other Creators Holds You Back

Many creative people struggle with self-doubt. Writers compare themselves to bestselling authors. Artists compare themselves to professionals with decades of experience. Entrepreneurs compare themselves to people who appear more successful, more talented, or further ahead. The problem isn't comparison itself. The problem is what comparison reveals about how we view ourselves. When self-worth is low, the success of others can feel threatening. When self-worth is healthy, the success of others becomes evidence of what is possible. The difference dramatically influences how we learn, create, and grow.